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Kirton on Hosking this morning was extremely contrite and admitted they should have involved the parents.
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14th March 2018, 09:59 | #242 |
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14th March 2018, 10:52 | #243 |
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“You know how we said the children hadn’t wanted the police to be involved, um just to clarify, we didn’t actually tell the children they COULD involve the police”
“Oh and when we said we involved professionals, just to clarify, we sat on this for nearly a month hoping it would stay a secret and then we contacted people once we realized it was about to become a story” Hashtag putting the children first |
14th March 2018, 20:10 | #244 |
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Man if they also did drop the Bishop story around this, some of them really are creeps no matter how much they fake it. Dirty politics indeed.
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15th March 2018, 09:11 | #245 |
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Interesting that Alison Mau and Lizzie Marvelly are very quiet about this considering they are the ones championing #metoonz. I suppose it doesn't quite fit their narrative when it's the labour party and when two of the victims are men.
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it gets better and better
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16th March 2018, 10:40 | #248 |
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Amoung all the politicised faux outrage & new found concern for victims we have Leighton Smith who has been suprisingly objective. He correctly points out that while Labour could've handled this better a big part of this is Nzs drinking culture & Young Nats parties are just as wild as are many organized parties around NZ.
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16th March 2018, 10:43 | #249 |
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Aren't most of those examples 18+ though?
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16th March 2018, 12:48 | #250 |
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That's the thing, in a private setting it's quite loose, particularly when people bring their own alcohol. Also this sort of thing happens even when younger people aren't present.
Of course I'm not saying this happens in every instance a group of young people party. But there are issues with our drinking culture and people's ideas around sex & consent.
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16th March 2018, 14:21 | #251 | |
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16th March 2018, 17:16 | #252 |
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What should have happened was people should have been able to party without getting sexually assaulted. In what world is sexual assault acceptable?
However sexual assault does happen. So what should happen when sexual assault occurs? Well if the victims of sexual assault are our primary concern, such victims should have known safe places to turn for help, run by trained experts who know how to meet the specific needs of the individual involved as diverse as they are, with the aim of both recovery and accountability. However this is not available. We have a handful of one-size-fits-all services, victim blaming when these services don't meet the needs of everyone. So how should we treat the victims of sexual assault? How do we avoid compounding tragedy upon tragedy, how do we put their needs before our needs? There is no answer to this question because, regardless of what's unacceptable, we consistently put our own needs, our own beliefs and values, our own politics before the needs of victims. We get all hyped up about a few individuals, make demands in specific cases, but when it comes to the volume of trauma that exists, the institutions and shared values that perpetuate violence, we blame, we make excuses. For years I've been pointing out, with evidence, that we're not doing enough to address sexual violence, that government policy is literally making it easier to perpetuate such violence. Mostly what I got back was personal attacks and escalating demands for evidence, if I wasn't completely ignored. Seriously. Fuck you guys.
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More like: "It's not us, we're not to blame, it's nothing to do with us. It's them, they're to blame, they need to change. *phew*, I'm glad that's clear, no need to worry about me, no need to think about what I need to do differently."
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16th March 2018, 18:39 | #256 |
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If the Young Nats did this, I'd be just as appalled. In fact, the YN come off as a bunch of twats any day of the week.
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Uh-huh. It's cause I'm this dick in a bastion of otherwise fine, upstanding behaviour that compels you to ignore the evidence I've repeatedly produced. That's real believable.
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16th March 2018, 20:16 | #259 |
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To be fair dude, on many subjects you come across as if assuming we're all part of the problem rather than people that COULD be part of the solution. Now I don't KNOW that's what you're thinking, but that's how it looks from what you type.
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Yeah, it was more the way you quoted/interpreted Leighton Smith's comment came across as him trying to set a smoke-screen; I wasn't saying that was what you were trying to do.
FWIW I completely agree that our violent, abusive "culture" is unacceptable; in desperate need of change. But just like the US example of "if you take the guns away there will still be guns", there will still be less guns and a reduction in gun violence; likewise we don't need to deal with ALL violence and abuse all at once - that's too big a job: The laws are already there, we now need to start where we can, and unfortunately for Labour, the YL controversy has basically stood out as a place to start. Saying the Young Nats and others have the same issues just means that there's another place to look too, but we shouldn't let it distract from this revolting series of events because we NEED to start somewhere. Why not there?
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Yeah hopefully at the very least this will be a wake up call for a lot of organisations in that they be more responsible in creating safer environments and coming up with better procedures for dealing with this kind of thing.
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Comedy gold! I think there was a Len Brown version of that too.
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If anything good comes out of all of this, it won't be because of people all of a sudden being concerned about sexual assault in NZ, when previously excuses were fine.
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20th March 2018, 16:48 | #268 |
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And that's why people don't take you seriously.
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20th March 2018, 17:45 | #269 |
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I don't want people to take me seriously, people can take me or leave me, that's their business. It'd be nice if people gave a damn about sexual assault and trauma, but I can't change people.
I'm still going to get mad when people make out like they give a damn all of a sudden.
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smoke -> fire
http://www.nzherald.co.nz/nz/news/ar...ectid=12020873
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27th March 2018, 13:49 | #272 |
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I've been saying for years that Curran is a moron. Now that she's a minister we get to see that in action.
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29th March 2018, 09:23 | #279 |
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You guys are hurting my feelings with your political discourse. Don't you want me to take you seriously? Won't you think of me when sharing your response to the politics of the day?
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