True, self-ID for age is problematic. Totally not problematic for gender though, so 45-year-old sex-offender Joseph Gobrick is a woman and the appropriate pronouns are she/her.
Check this one out:
https://5newsonline.com/2019/02/27/l...saulting-teen/
24-year-old North Carolina man Tanner Young forced a 15-year-old girl to watch him masturbate, then assaulted her with a sex toy. At trial he announced that... she is now "Evelyn" and identifies as female.
She was only given probation, because women get more lenient sentences for sex crimes