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Old 12th January 2020, 15:34     #297
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Originally Posted by Ab
Not as handy as an article about the difficulties of being a non-binary lesbian

https://www.pinknews.co.uk/2018/08/1...y-and-lesbian/
Wonderful isn't it? Reaching this point of the discussion. If maybe we don't all burn, we might get to enjoy a future of diverse sexual expression.

It's very common for traditionally hetero men to enjoy encounters with or pornography of transsexuals. (I first guessed this when I noticed I'd find lesbian porn and trap porn amongst straight porn, but not gay porn. Later I discovered this had been studied and found to be the case.) That's not my jam, but I have noticed some... strangely enticing feelings towards some of my more androgynous female friends. Along with more familiar responses to their very feminine girlfriends. If I was younger, that would have caused some concern about what that meant for me. Now I get to notice and wonder, which is much more productive.

It's going to be a difficult transition, as detailed in the article. Especially while there are those who are comfortable with tradition that seem compelled to pick at those who are not. This will pass along with the volume of people caught in that dynamic.

Once we're over that hump, we might enjoy a time where we can just be who we are, enjoy what's mutually enjoyable without all the hangups and conflicts I at least struggled with, and certainly see many others struggling much worse. Well, all things being equal, which they aren't. Climate change will put pressure on everyone, sex tends to give quickly under pressure, it being a favourite point of release as we fail to cope.
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