[Lightspeed]

No, no. You do you.

I could think of a number of things other than career that could influence f_t's perspective. Perhaps they support a vulnerable person?

I notice some revert to cynicism, get addicted to blame, when supporting someone who can't support themselves. And many take a more philosophical approach, one that allows them to appreciate not just their own struggles, but the vulnerability that exists in the world beyond their own needs.